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"Hi y'all, it's Chronomaster42, the only Youtuber with the ability to travel through, and control, time and space, here with another taste test. this meeting was just wrestling for old times sake. they know we used to fight almost daily and think it’s real mature + kind of cute because at the time we were emotional WRECKS who were not afraid to lash out at others, so waiting until after school was a “huge improvement”. We kinda stopped doing this in highschool but remained friends, and our moms are friends also. it was very emotionally fulfilling and probably helped us out more then special ed ever did. then we would walk home and chat about our day.
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usually this involved name calling and being jackasses but often would result in wrestling/hitting if one of us was pissed enough. since we got in trouble a lot for this we decided that instead of being angry at other people we would be mature and wait until after school before fighting each other.
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The context here is that we were both autistic kids in the same middle school (circa 2012) who had the same reaction to emotional issues- to fucking fight people. You don’t have to like it, but you do have to realise that these straight people are being harmed by homophobia, transphobia etc. When we fixate on trying to declare people as queer or not based on their identity, we miss the ways in which behaviour pushes self-declared straight people under our umbrella. They’ve thought about it and they aren’t gay! They have straight lives that they’re fine with, and sometimes they have sex with men!Īnd something that gets me about Queer Identity Discourse is that it would just immediately declare these people Not Gay And Not In Need Of Our Resources, when they clearly are! They have the same struggles with HIV/AIDS as gay men, they get criminalised by anti-gay sex laws the same as gay men - they just happen to identify as straight! Now, a lot of people’s first impulse is to say they have internalised homophobia, but a) that’s rude as hell to assume about a stranger and b) a lot of them just. Like, this is a known thing, particularly when it comes to HIV outreach campaigns it’s why HIV campaigns use MSM (men who have sex with men) when most other LGBT+ stuff doesn’t. There is literally a significant subgroup of men who have sex with other men, but consider themselves straight and don’t respond to outreach for gay/queer men. And if they’re respectful and the space isn’t explicitly “no cishet right now” then like, them being there isn’t that much of an issue usually.Īll of this internet discourse that tries to exclude or bully people just isn’t grounded in reality. Because their significant other or a family member or a good friend is lgbt+ or because they’re poly or because they just feel more comfortable around queer people or they just feel like fighting for gay rights is something that they’re supposed to be doing.
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And also you’ll also tend to find a lot of cishet gender conforming people in these spaces too. Irl queer spaces tend to cover huge swaths of people. Or people that id as non binary but not as trans.Īt some point you need to stop trying to figure out who definitively belongs in the club because like. Or some intersex people that don’t id with the lgbt community. People that identify as cis that “crossdress” or even do some things that might be considered to be part of “transitioning”. Straight people that often just felt more comfortable around gay people because they could just be themselves.Īnd yeah that’s an obvious example of people that aren’t queer hanging out in queer spaces but there’s also a ton of gray area. But so were straight people that just kind of fell outside of societal norms a bit. I grew up in the theatre community, and after I learned what being gay was I discovered that gay people were everywhere in theatre. Irl probably almost nobody would kick this guy out. And maybe the queer community is where he feels most at home because he’s kind of feminine, and doing drag is a big part of his life. Like a cishet man that likes doing drag likely doesn’t consider himself queer and neither would any of his queer/lgbt friends but he might still be super active in the community and mostly hang out with gay guys and bring his girlfriend to pride and maybe even perform at pride.